{"id":1113,"date":"2024-03-14T21:14:56","date_gmt":"2024-03-14T21:14:56","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.deuxfilles.net\/dateyladies\/?p=1113"},"modified":"2024-03-14T21:15:01","modified_gmt":"2024-03-14T21:15:01","slug":"dl067-the-narcissist-in-your-life-part-1-just-kitten","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.deuxfilles.net\/dateyladies\/2024\/03\/14\/dl067-the-narcissist-in-your-life-part-1-just-kitten\/","title":{"rendered":"DL067 &#8211; The Narcissist in Your Life &#8211; part 1 &#8220;Just Kitten&#8221;"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap wp-block-paragraph\">Neo-Burlesque legend KITTEN DEVILLE joins us in reviewing THE NARCISSIST IN YOUR LIFE: RECOGNIZING PATTERNS AND LEARNING TO BREAK FREE. After suddenly losing Shawn, her beloved husband of 36 years, Kitten found herself back in the dating world with unexpected results. 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