Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

DL018 How We Met – Katie M.

Listener Katie M. shares her serendipitous meeting with her future husband (which we thoroughly dissect), plus Barbara updates us on how app-y she’s Feelding.

Darn straight, lady.

Regarding the (currently averted) IATSE strike – which is ALL THE FILM UNIONS – check out @IA_Stories on Instagram.

DL017 Twinterlude – F Buddy

Vera talks Barbara into signing up with Feeld, a “dating app for couples and singles” she discovered through Lisa (Ep. 005A). Not a paid promotion (But it could be! You hearing us Feeld? You need our Venmo or?)

DL016 Twinterlude – Vampirical Gangster

Barbara reveals the shocking twist of last episode’s dating disaster, and Vera doth protests her undead love. Plus, vintage hip-hip and modern-day cat calling!

Twin art by Ciro Casanova @TheArtofCiro

DL015 Twinterview – Erin Tillman

We were so lucky to speak with the author of THE CONSENT GUIDEBOOK herself! Erin Tillman is a Dating Coach, Intimacy Co-ordinator, and Executive Director of Sex Positive LA.

Find everything you need to know at Erin at TheDatingAdviceGirl.com


Regarding the Twinsight:

(A) Share your “How-I-Met-My-Partner” personal story with us! We would like to play your 15-30 second story on Datey Ladies. Please include your name (or pseudonym) and city/country.

Email: record your story through your phone’s voice memo app. On iPhone, record on the Voice Memo app, press the three dots (…) and choose “share,” choose Mail and send to DateyLadies~at~gmail~dot~com.

(B) Send us your favorite (or least favorite) relationship book! We will mark it up, review it, and SEND IT BACK. Extra points if it’s MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS by John Gray.

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North Hollywood, CA 91601

DL014 – The Consent Guidebook

The twins discuss Erin Tillman’s fantastic guide to enthusiastic consent, plus talk mom-dates, boundaries, and Barbara’s dream date/new roommate!

Erin Tillman

Follow Erin on Instagram @datingadvicegrl and @sexposla !

DL013 Twinterlude – Me Three

Trigger warning : Barbara continues her recollections of teenage assault.

Plus letters from abroad, Worzel Gummidge, a leather onesie, and facing social anxiety in real time.

Worzel and Sally, a FarmersOnly.com success story.

DL012 Twinterlude – Virgin Gigolos

Hold onto your hat, it’s a twinterlude/twinsight two-fer! Vera reveals her new degree, while Barbara examines some perplexing encounters of the virginal kind.

Plus, the twins revisit last episode’s discussion of assault, and how not to be an a-hole over someone else’s trauma (TW, dear listeners).

And now for a very special presentation of Barbara’s oeuvre de film, ENTER THE DIVA!

DL011 – Getting To I Do

The twins explore the work of one Dr. Patricia Allen, including her weekly call-in show on LA Talk Radio (tl;dl? Skip to 32:30!) Trigger warning: this episode contains discussion of sexual assault.


But first, a tribute to their departed friend, artist Albert Cuellar. Please visit his Instagram @ArtSpecter1 to see his work with Tim Burton, Slayer, and much more.

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Albert, Blaine, and Vera at an art show, 2003