Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

DL024 – The Ethical Slut featuring Prix de Beaute

Real-life alternative-relationship-haver PRIX DE BEAUTE helps us finally grasp THE ETHICAL SLUT, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy! Hear part 1 of her fascinating history of sex, romance, heartache, and jealousy as she searched for the perfect balance of partners in life and love.

See more of Prix on Instagram!

  1. Prix de Beaute performing burlesque at club Planet Queer to “celebrate” her Mormon polygamist heritage.
  2. Prix at a Werewolf Orgy as part of Dave Lebow’s MONSTER GIRLS series.
  3. Prix challenging gender binaries and monosexuality with her partner, for Ginger Liu Photography.
  4. Prix with her rainbow hair-do!

DL23 Twinterlude – You Down With I.I.P.?

Barbara updates us on her dating life, the twins talks TV, and Vera clears up a massive mystery regarding last week’s Vampire Orgy story.

Also: MELANIE LYNSKEY! The YELLOWJACKETS and HEAVENLY CREATURES actress’s name is MELANIE LYNSKEY!!!

DL018 How We Met – Katie M.

Listener Katie M. shares her serendipitous meeting with her future husband (which we thoroughly dissect), plus Barbara updates us on how app-y she’s Feelding.

Darn straight, lady.

Regarding the (currently averted) IATSE strike – which is ALL THE FILM UNIONS – check out @IA_Stories on Instagram.

DL015 Twinterview – Erin Tillman

We were so lucky to speak with the author of THE CONSENT GUIDEBOOK herself! Erin Tillman is a Dating Coach, Intimacy Co-ordinator, and Executive Director of Sex Positive LA.

Find everything you need to know at Erin at TheDatingAdviceGirl.com


Regarding the Twinsight:

(A) Share your “How-I-Met-My-Partner” personal story with us! We would like to play your 15-30 second story on Datey Ladies. Please include your name (or pseudonym) and city/country.

Email: record your story through your phone’s voice memo app. On iPhone, record on the Voice Memo app, press the three dots (…) and choose “share,” choose Mail and send to DateyLadies~at~gmail~dot~com.

(B) Send us your favorite (or least favorite) relationship book! We will mark it up, review it, and SEND IT BACK. Extra points if it’s MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS by John Gray.

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DL014 – The Consent Guidebook

The twins discuss Erin Tillman’s fantastic guide to enthusiastic consent, plus talk mom-dates, boundaries, and Barbara’s dream date/new roommate!

Erin Tillman

Follow Erin on Instagram @datingadvicegrl and @sexposla !

DL013 Twinterlude – Me Three

Trigger warning : Barbara continues her recollections of teenage assault.

Plus letters from abroad, Worzel Gummidge, a leather onesie, and facing social anxiety in real time.

Worzel and Sally, a FarmersOnly.com success story.

DL011 – Getting To I Do

The twins explore the work of one Dr. Patricia Allen, including her weekly call-in show on LA Talk Radio (tl;dl? Skip to 32:30!) Trigger warning: this episode contains discussion of sexual assault.


But first, a tribute to their departed friend, artist Albert Cuellar. Please visit his Instagram @ArtSpecter1 to see his work with Tim Burton, Slayer, and much more.

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Albert, Blaine, and Vera at an art show, 2003

DL010 Twinterview – Natasha Estrada

If synchronicity – or twinchronicity – were an interview, this would be it. Natasha first came to our attention as La Cholita, the crowned-queen of the 2007 Viva Las Vegas festival, and fellow performer in the Velvet Hammer burlesque revue and Lucha Va VOOM. After years touring the world with a psycho billy band and Dita Von Teese, she pivoted to acting, singing, comedy, raising her little boy, and filming the occasional Informercial.

One of those Informercials? Shapermint.

Join us for a romp through the delightful world that is Natasha Estrada’s, discussing dating as a single mom, FUPA love, and the unmatched glamour of infomercial stardom!

Follow Natasha on Instagram for videos of her hit-single chart-toppers “Me, Myself & My Fupa” and “Good Dick”!

La Cholita performance; love that glove!

DL009 Act 5 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships

The final act is here! Will the triplets ever accept their birthday books about Presidents? Have you won an award for faking it? And what’s YOUR favorite Glory Hole – we got ours!

Thanks for following us on this epic journey through Dr. Emma Goodall’s guide to life and love.