Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

DL014 – The Consent Guidebook

The twins discuss Erin Tillman’s fantastic guide to enthusiastic consent, plus talk mom-dates, boundaries, and Barbara’s dream date/new roommate!

Erin Tillman

Follow Erin on Instagram @datingadvicegrl and @sexposla !

DL011 – Getting To I Do

The twins explore the work of one Dr. Patricia Allen, including her weekly call-in show on LA Talk Radio (tl;dl? Skip to 32:30!) Trigger warning: this episode contains discussion of sexual assault.


But first, a tribute to their departed friend, artist Albert Cuellar. Please visit his Instagram @ArtSpecter1 to see his work with Tim Burton, Slayer, and much more.

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Albert, Blaine, and Vera at an art show, 2003

DL009 Act 5 – The Autism Spectrum Guide to Sexuality and Relationships

The final act is here! Will the triplets ever accept their birthday books about Presidents? Have you won an award for faking it? And what’s YOUR favorite Glory Hole – we got ours!

Thanks for following us on this epic journey through Dr. Emma Goodall’s guide to life and love.

DL008 Act 4 – The Upward Spiral

‘This is the most coolest show, and we worked hard on it, and the reason it is really cool is because we worked more than before.’ – Vera’s 7 year old son

Also, an interview with author Dr. Alex Korb! Buy his books now at Harriett’s Bookshop and Moon Palace Books.

DL008 Act 2 – The Upward Spiral

Onwards and upwards! In Act 2 of Alex Korb’s THE UPWARD SPIRAL, we explore the brain-benefits of Lucha Libre, rude Brits, how to be an astronaut, and one very special rug.