Datey Ladies with Barbara Ann & Vera Duffy

DL029 Office Hours – Three Amigos

We did something totally new – live-streamed on Instagram and invited listeners to join us! We call it Office Hours, and it was weird and fun and we’ll definitely do it again. Meet us yourself on our next broadcast – and make sure to follow us on @DateyLadies so you don’t miss it!

More about the dear listeners (all dudes!) who spoke with us…

Professional Cuddler Samantha Hess

DL026 Twinterlude – Freeways ‘n’ Threeways

Happy Valentine’s Day, Bae! Vera takes a closer look at three of our authors (and her own self), while Bibi takes a pot-hole shot at the van-banger from our ALL THE FUCKING MISTAKES episodes (DL006 Acts 1-3).

DL024 – The Ethical Slut featuring Prix de Beaute – part 1

Real-life alternative-relationship-haver PRIX DE BEAUTE helps us finally grasp THE ETHICAL SLUT, by Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy! Hear part 1 of her fascinating history of sex, romance, heartache, and jealousy as she searched for the perfect balance of partners in life and love.

See more of Prix on Instagram!

  1. Prix de Beaute performing burlesque at club Planet Queer to “celebrate” her Mormon polygamist heritage.
  2. Prix at a Werewolf Orgy as part of Dave Lebow’s MONSTER GIRLS series.
  3. Prix challenging gender binaries and monosexuality with her partner, for Ginger Liu Photography.
  4. Prix with her rainbow hair-do!

DL016 Twinterlude – Vampirical Gangster

Barbara reveals the shocking twist of last episode’s dating disaster, and Vera doth protests her undead love. Plus, vintage hip-hip and modern-day cat calling!

Twin art by Ciro Casanova @TheArtofCiro

DL015 Twinterview – Erin Tillman

We were so lucky to speak with the author of THE CONSENT GUIDEBOOK herself! Erin Tillman is a Dating Coach, Intimacy Co-ordinator, and Executive Director of Sex Positive LA.

Find everything you need to know at Erin at TheDatingAdviceGirl.com


Regarding the Twinsight:

(A) Share your “How-I-Met-My-Partner” personal story with us! We would like to play your 15-30 second story on Datey Ladies. Please include your name (or pseudonym) and city/country.

Email: record your story through your phone’s voice memo app. On iPhone, record on the Voice Memo app, press the three dots (…) and choose “share,” choose Mail and send to DateyLadies~at~gmail~dot~com.

(B) Send us your favorite (or least favorite) relationship book! We will mark it up, review it, and SEND IT BACK. Extra points if it’s MEN ARE FROM MARS, WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS by John Gray.

Duffys
11304 Chandler Blvd. #121
North Hollywood, CA 91601

DL014 – The Consent Guidebook

The twins discuss Erin Tillman’s fantastic guide to enthusiastic consent, plus talk mom-dates, boundaries, and Barbara’s dream date/new roommate!

Erin Tillman

Follow Erin on Instagram @datingadvicegrl and @sexposla !

DL011 – Getting To I Do

The twins explore the work of one Dr. Patricia Allen, including her weekly call-in show on LA Talk Radio (tl;dl? Skip to 32:30!) Trigger warning: this episode contains discussion of sexual assault.


But first, a tribute to their departed friend, artist Albert Cuellar. Please visit his Instagram @ArtSpecter1 to see his work with Tim Burton, Slayer, and much more.

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Albert, Blaine, and Vera at an art show, 2003